Many people try using law-of-attraction techniques to end the running and chasing with their twin flame. There is an endless supply of spiritual gurus online telling you to use this-or-that manifesting technique or law-of-attraction method to end what they call “separation” with their twin flame (more on that later). Learning these techniques and methods can seem daunting and confusing, but is this really even necessary in the first place? Does it even work?
The New World Allstar (NWA) method, it turns out, is no method at all. It is works because it is built on one simple principle: You ARE your twin flame (more on that later as well). So, you’re not trying to attract someone or something else to you–you are trying to attract YOU to you. The problem with understanding this is the idea that there are two people (“you” and “them”). One of the ideas behind the law-of-attraction is that “we live in a simulated reality, an illusion.” What we can “real” is really a façade. This is true. And with your twin flame, this teaching should become even more obvious because we as living beings are not just “people.” We are not our bodies nor our mind. If you look at your body and your twin flame’s body, it appears that there are two (“you” and “them”), but this is the illusion. Neither you nor your twin flame are your bodies (nor your mind). You are a Soul. Thus, with your twin flame and only with your twin flame: you are not trying to attract someone else to you, you are trying to attract YOU to you. The only reason human beings struggle with a concept like this is because it is asking you to go beyond that very thing: concept. To align with your Soul, you must transcend concept itself.
If you get a camera and play the role of “the man on the street” interviewer, and ask random people on the street who they are, they will inevitably tell you a story about their job or their family or things they like to do, or even beliefs they have. They’ll tell you all about their career, if they went to college, if they have travelled, if they have children, what their political beliefs are and so on. And that’s totally fine. But is that who they really are? All of these stories they would tell you are exactly that: a story. They are an accounting of history. This becomes an identity. But it is a conceptual, mind-based identity. So if who you really are is a Soul…what is that?
The Soul is basically consciousness. At least from our perspective in the mortal world. The experience of Soul is simply that of awareness. It’s true that there is slightly more to the Soul than that, but for the sake of simplicity, we’ll just say that the Soul is 99.9% consciousness.
Consciousness is not thought. It is not concept. It is not a story or a history and thus it isn’t even really an identity. It is beyond mind.
Stop Working To Attract Your Twin Flame
All law-of-attraction techniques are mental. You try to “shift your thinking” so that you can shift your reality. But with your twin flame, all of this backfires. The mind is thought, emotion and metaphysical energy and it works on a system of duality or “separation” e.g. this/that; up/down; good/bad; correct/incorrect; me/you; etc. For there to be concept at all, there has to be more than one. Oneness (non-duality or “unity/union”) is beyond the conceptual mind. It is very interesting that the so-called “twin flame community” online has misappropriated the words “separation” and “union.” New World Allstar was the first to recognize that these terms were indeed mis-appropriated, for the terms “separation” and “union” do not come from twin flames at all. These terminologies come from the ancient Zen traditions.
The twin-flame community online believes these words as some kind of a relationship status with their twin flame, but nothing could be further from the truth. These are states of consciousness. The use of the word “separation” in ancient Zen traditions is simply how the ego/mind perceives reality e.g. “this and that,” “me and you,” and so on. “Union” (which was derived from from “unity consciousness”) is beyond the duality and separateness of ego/mind. It is where you are ONE with ALL! Including your twin flame. So what, then, would happen if you focused intently on your twin flame using law-of-attraction techniques?
Why Your Twin Flame Runs
The mind is separation and duality. If you focus on your twin flame mentally, emotionally or metaphysically they run. Don’t be discouraged by that. You can still have a very satisfying relating experience with your twin flame, but it won’t be the hot and heavy passion of “eros.” It will be the spiritually advanced experience called “agape.” It is inner peace and oneness with All. New World Allstar was one of the first to recognize that all of the healing techniques, law of assumption methods and so on that are so often prescribed as a way to end the running and chasing actually don’t work at all. In fact, they make your twin flame run harder.
Think about it. You’ve already tried all that stuff and it didn’t work, did it?
You and your twin flame are polar opposites at the level of the mind. This isn’t soulmates; this works very, very differently. With soulmates, there are two separate at every level: two bodies, two minds and two Souls. But you and your twin flame are One Soul. You are your twin flame. There aren’t two of you. But as long as you believe yourself to be the story you tell (remember the man on the street interview?), you will operate from separation (the ego/mind). You and your twin flame are literally energetic polar opposites at the level of the mind.
This has nothing to do with the content of the ego mind. Think of it more like a machine: it’s pure mechanics. Your mental energy is the “push” energy. Your twin flame’s mental energy is the “pull.” This is “separation.” You believe you are your mind, so when you (actually not “you,” but your mind/ego/personality…not the Soul, but who you THINK you are) try to “do something about them,” your twin flame runs harder. You believe you are your mind, and this mind that you believe yourself to be believes it needs to do something to end the running from your twin flame.
“Doing something about them” looks like: healing, clearing your karma, clearing your chakras, the mirror exercise, the violet flame chant, healing your inner childhood wounds and so on. Normally, these things aren’t bad to do, but with your twin flame, your whole starting point with these techniques is the conceptual belief that there is a “you” and there is a “them” and you need to “do something” to “get somewhere with this.” The mind (not actually you) believes it needs to accomplish something. But that’s the trick: you don’t! Why don’t you? Because you already ARE your twin flame.
What is the solution?
From day one, New World Allstar has always told it’s students to:
- STOP CHASING YOUR TWIN FLAME. Stop today. And:
- Remember Who You Really Are beyond the ego/mind. And you cannot think your way there.
This is not a journey of the mind. The mind cannot get you there. No amount of thinking or emotion. will help. In fact, thinking and emotion are the whole problem. You are not a story. The Real You does not think. The Real You is simply “being.” There is no “doing” or “accomplishing” at all. You simply are Consciousness. This is your Soul. This is your twin flame.
You are a Soul. The Soul is consciousness.
YOU are the Observer of thinking and emotion. This is the whole entire solution.
It is so simple yet so confounding to most people because they are always trying to “figure out” what that means or how to “do” it. But it doesn’t “mean” anything and it doesn’t need to be accomplished through action. It is simply the Experience of being the Silent Witness of thinking and emotion.
This is why New World Allstar’s core literature has you start with The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle. Eckhart Tolle is recognized as a modern day Enlightened Master. If not the modern day Enlightened Master. The name of the first chapter of his book is called “You Are Not Your Mind.” His book teaches you the ancient art of the Zen traditions. No healing, no balancing your inner feminine and masculine, no crystals, no astrology…so, not the pop-culture “spiritualism” of today’s internet (which is not spiritualism at all). But instead, the tried and true practice of traditional Zen spiritualism. Real spiritualism.
What happens when the student stops chasing their twin and instead embraces Genuine Spiritualism? The student experiences a Greater Reality beyond the veil of this illusion we call “reality.” Life changing, paradigm shifting breakthroughs take place in the life of the student. And of course, the twin flame stops running. Why do they stop running and rejecting the student? Because YOU ARE NOT YOUR MIND. You are a SOUL. And you are now attracting YOU to YOU.
